{"id":415,"date":"2026-01-11T15:04:20","date_gmt":"2026-01-11T20:04:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lepetitparc.ca\/bytchello\/?p=415"},"modified":"2026-02-08T17:26:20","modified_gmt":"2026-02-08T22:26:20","slug":"la-deuxieme-premiere-chance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lepetitparc.ca\/bytchello\/2026\/01\/11\/la-deuxieme-premiere-chance\/","title":{"rendered":"La deuxi\u00e8me premi\u00e8re chance"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignleft is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/lepetitparc.ca\/bytchello\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/36\/2026\/01\/2026-150x150.png\" alt=\"The current image has no alternative text. The file name is: 2026.png\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 150px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 150\/150;width:210px;height:auto\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dans ma qu\u00eate permanente pour devenir la meilleure version de moi-m\u00eame, je me suis d\u00e9j\u00e0 pos\u00e9 la double question suivante :&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>D\u2019o\u00f9 viens-je? De l\u2019amour!&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>O\u00f9 vais-je? \u00c0 l\u2019amour!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Et j\u2019ai une conviction \u00e0 titre d\u2019\u00e9ducateur : L\u2019\u00e9ducation est une transformation positive et continue de l\u2019humain.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je crois que l\u2019\u00e2me (d\u2019un \u00eatre humain) grandit chaque jour, jusqu\u2019\u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9ternit\u00e9. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c0 mon humble avis, l\u2019\u00e2me pourrait s\u2019appeler <em>\u00c9ternit\u00e9<\/em>. L\u2019\u00e2me qui meurt entrera dans l\u2019\u00e9ternit\u00e9. L\u2019\u00e2me qui vit y entrera aussi, paradoxalement. Attention! Je l\u2019affirme en tant que penseur. Tout simplement!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u2019\u00e9ternit\u00e9&nbsp;<strong>sans<\/strong>&nbsp;amour, c\u2019est&nbsp;<strong>l\u2019enfer<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u2019\u00e9ternit\u00e9&nbsp;<strong>dans<\/strong>&nbsp;l\u2019amour, c\u2019est&nbsp;<strong>le paradis.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u2019est l\u2019une des raisons pour lesquelles, je consid\u00e8re le pardon comme \u00e9tant un beau &lt;&lt; don &gt;&gt;. Y recourir est un bon coup!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u2019ai r\u00e9cemment lu sur Internet l\u2019histoire d\u2019une femme tu\u00e9e par un homme, \u00e0 Minneapolis, et je m\u2019interroge sur le pardon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le pardon, c\u2019est, entre autres, le BOR (BIEN OU RIEN). En d\u2019autres termes, c\u2019est la poursuite du bon &lt;&lt; bord &gt;&gt;, c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire du c\u00f4t\u00e9 positif de la dualit\u00e9 de la vie, sans aucun manich\u00e9isme.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le BOR est tout simplement la devise d\u2019une personne QVA2 (Qui Vient de l\u2019Amour; Qui Va \u00e0 l\u2019Amour), soit un \u00eatre humain qui choisit de faire le bien ou ne rien faire si ce n\u2019est pas pour le bien (malgr\u00e9 son imperfection).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alors, la question est : Peut-on pardonner le &lt;&lt; non-sens &gt;&gt; pour le bien? Ma r\u00e9ponse est oui.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un adepte du voyage m\u2019avait fait savoir en 2020 (une ann\u00e9e de pand\u00e9mie) que le confinement \u00e9tait loin d\u2019\u00eatre sain. Mon commentaire a \u00e9t\u00e9 : Pas &lt;&lt; sain &gt;&gt;, peut-\u00eatre, mais bien (on ne fait que faire sa part, dans une certaine mesure, pour freiner la propagation d\u2019un agent secret infectieux).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je tiens \u00e0 souligner que la notion de premi\u00e8re et derni\u00e8re chance est incompatible avec l\u2019amour (ou inh\u00e9rente \u00e0 la haine), sauf en cas de v\u00e9ritable situation de danger de mort. En d\u2019autres termes, <strong>je suis pour la deuxi\u00e8me premi\u00e8re chance<\/strong>. &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le plus souvent, il suffit de semer pour r\u00e9colter. Mais, h\u00e9las, trop de gens sont impatients \u00e0 l&rsquo;id\u00e9e de semer ce qu&rsquo;ils souhaitent!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Au lieu de planter l\u00e0 les gens (en \u00e9tant du mauvais c\u00f4t\u00e9), il faudrait planter et pr\u00f4ner l\u2019ABC (Amour \u2013 Bienveillance \u2013 Confiance).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En conclusion, planter les choses est plus fructueux que planter l\u00e0 les gens (c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire les larguer). La deuxi\u00e8me premi\u00e8re chance (y compris \u00e0 soi-m\u00eame) peut porter chance, et non forc\u00e9ment la derni\u00e8re chance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u2019il faut pardonner, pardonnons. S\u2019il ne faut pas pardonner, pardonnons encore une fois pour v\u00e9rifier qu\u2019il ne faut pas pardonner!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bytchello Pr\u00e9vil<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Site Internet\u00a0: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.0faute.org\">www.0faute.org<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dans ma qu\u00eate permanente pour devenir la meilleure version de moi-m\u00eame, je me suis d\u00e9j\u00e0 pos\u00e9 la double question suivante :&nbsp; Et j\u2019ai une conviction \u00e0 titre d\u2019\u00e9ducateur : L\u2019\u00e9ducation est une transformation positive et continue de l\u2019humain.&nbsp; Je crois que l\u2019\u00e2me (d\u2019un \u00eatre humain) grandit chaque jour, jusqu\u2019\u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9ternit\u00e9. &nbsp; \u00c0 mon humble avis, 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